I truly believe we get what we focus on. Equally, I believe you cannot see a negative. When you say ride safe, I listen. When you say don’t crash, I tune you out. If you persist, I will stop talking to you all together. Our friendship could easily end. That’s how serious it is, for me.
When I hear a caring loved-one say to my friend “don’t get hurt”. I look right at that person and say stop jinxing him. Stop planting those negative seeds. What do you think we all see when you say that?
We see dear old Loverboy in a pile, hurting in the worst way.
What should you say to the people you care about as they venture out to any activity?
See you later, have a great time, come back smiling…
…we all want to talk about that.